My mum has just moved into a nursing home as she is unable to care for herself. She was living in very sheltered housing where carers did everything for her. I set all her bills up on DD / SO, the only thing i needed to do was get her small weekly shop and any clothes etc she needed. This was done by me via an online shop with mums permission.
Her social worker has asked that i apply for deputyship with regards to mums money as her mental capacity to consent is declining (altho probably 70% of the time she is properly aware). An LPA would be easier to set up but we have no witness available to sign, mums carers etc couldnt do it and she has no close friends (who are capable) of doing this.
Ive looked online about deputyship, it seems very confusing and the initial outlay is £400+ and £200+ if it goes to a court hearing. Plus there is a yearly fee. I havent got that amount of money to apply for deputyship.
I guess my questions are:
Can a family member witness an LPA (online answers vary)? Eg my husband / her son in law
Can mums money be used to pay the deputyship costs?
What happens if i do nothing? Who takes over looking after mums finances?
Just to add, she does not own any property. Her money is about £16k in total.