My mother moved to sheltered housing this year, and now has a local authority carer who visits 3 times a day. My mother isn't the easiest, and she has deep rooted racist attitudes. Despite that the carer has been so supportive, gone above and beyond, helping Mum be organised, phoning me about issues on her day off etc.The carer is living here - she is Nogerian- while her husband studies at university, and she has two children. I would like to give her a gift and a thankyou for christmas. I don't know a lot about he carers own life- I thought about money- but maybe that is too impersonal, and I don't know if there are rules about accepting money - many of the carers clients have dementia, are vulnerable.
I was thinking about an Amazon voucher and a big tin of chocolates- any ideas?