My elderly Mum cares for Dad who has dementia. She ( along with me and my sister) does all the organising, gives him medication, prepares food, helps him dress , takes him to appointments etc. he can’t be left longer than an hour or two. She does receive carers allowance but rang me to say someone told her to claim Attendance allowance- I tried to find out what the difference is but still confused! Can anyone enlighten me 😂