My elderly mother is now in a care home and LPA was sought to finance this necessary move by DB.
How do I ensure that financially everything is above board...or even, can I? Sadly, recent events (expensive purchase) have made me question the intentions and I think that her full savings pot may not be going on fees.
I agreed to the LPA assuming I could trust DB but I'm concerned now.
So as not to drip feed...mother is a narc and has treated us terribly, been mean her whole life so has a sizeable amount of savings. There will be no inheritance but DB is already helping himself to what he thinks he deserves.