It isn’t my parent but an elderly friend.
I don’t have contact details for his family. I did chat generally to him and asked in a roundabout way if his family ever go in the car with him driving and they don’t so they are likely unaware of the danger he is in.
I have been driven by him and it is utterly terrifying to the degree that I won’t go in his car ever again.
The first time I thought it was because he was awaiting cataract surgery so after he had the surgery I gathered my courage and agreed to another trip but it was just as awful.
He doesn’t notice oncoming traffic at junctions, doesn’t judge speed of approaching cars at roundabouts, forgets to indicate, misses turnings.
He does limit his driving to just his local area from his own choice because he says doesn’t like motorways or dual carriage ways anymore but he could easily have an accident locally.
I feel terrible contemplating taking this step, as I know it will be a huge upset for him but the alternative of him hurting himself or someone else is worse.
I looked at the DVLA website but it isn’t clear how to report someone.
I want to do it anonymously. He absolutely would not accept me doing this if I was to be honest with him.
Can somebody who has been through this tell me how to do this please?