Hope someone can advise on our questions (below), we are finding this such a minefield. A quick recap, facts only for brevity:
MIL has been bedbound for five years. She has private carers going in four times daily to change her, wash and feed her. All other care to maintain her standard of living is provided by DP and his sibling, eg prescription ordering, gardening, food shopping, flowers, finances, as she not capable of any of that.
This set-up costs around £5.5k per month, including food, council tax, electrics etc.
She has razed through savings, and has around £35k left.
She owns her own home, value around £310k.
Despite GP recommendation (long story, lots of reasons), she refuses to go to a care home. We have therefore been working with social services, who say they are able to provide all that MIL needs to stay at home, including the areas currently fulfilled by DP and sibling.
Before we go down this council-funded route, our questions:
- Given MIL's home ownership and remaining finances (we are aware of the £23k threshold), is there any chance that the council will cover her care costs, either in part of full?
- If not, she will need to sell her home. How does that work if she is living in it? Equity release...?
If anyone has faced this situation, I would love to read about it, it is so hard to find a straight answer.
Thank you so much.