The backstory: 3.5 years ago 82yo MiL moved in with SiL and her partner. Wider family advised against this as they have clashed in the past. We, and other family live over 2 hrs away, so we supported their decision. They thought it was best as MiL wasn't eating properly.
MiL paid for a bathroom renovation to make it suitable for her needs. The house is big ish so they were confident about it working.
Today: the relationship between MiL and SiL has broken down. Both are very unhappy and realise what a mistake it was. SiL's mental health is suffering and MiL is in tears. A toxic environment. After much discussion MiL has said that she will move into wardened accommodation. She is very frail and a fall risk. This seems best for all. But.... how do we start this process off?
MiL has about £10k in savings but nothing else. We've been trawling the care choices page of their LA but not sure about funding. How do I find this stuff out ?
Thought its been bubbling for a while its really erupted this week and we know nothing will happen quickly but we need to make a start.
Has anyone else been through this? Would appreciate any advice...