I've posted a couple of times before about my DM. She's late 70s, and in the last 5-7 years has experienced a steady decline and a kaleidoscope of health problems that now completely dominate her life and conversation. Problems have included chronic insomnia, gastric problems (bloating, nausea, diarrhoea), dizziness and balance issues, memory loss, confusion, anxiety, irritability and depression, along with variable hypertension and hypotension. She's had all sorts of tests, none of which have concluded anything at all (except a diagnosis of Mild Cognitive Impairment - which I think has probably now tipped over into dementia).
That's the background - but in the last couple of months she seems to have declined further and faster, and is now just feeling 'so unwell' all of the time. Over these weeks, she's also noticed a big increase in breathlessness. She's had a high degree of unfitness for ages, because she never really moves much any more, but this has hit a new level recently. When I saw her a couple of weeks ago I noticed that she was quite out of breath when she'd been up and down the stairs, and now she says that she has to lie down panting for breath every time she goes upstairs at home. She can't walk more than a hundred yards outside (very slowly) without feeling overwhelmed, both by breathlessness and dizziness.
Having had so many 'it must be X' moments with her over the years, and being proved wrong when all the tests come back clear, I'm not sure what to think now - but I'm concerned this has all the hallmarks of heart failure or COPD - and I also wonder whether this could have been behind some of her other symptoms for ages. Her GP referred her for a chest X ray, which she had today, so I guess I'll know something soon enough - but I'm just coming on here in the meantime to be anxious and ask for any thoughts. I've already been worried for a long time about what the future will look like for her and my poor dad - and feeling more worried than ever now. Is there any chance this could be better than it seems?