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Elderly parents

My mother can be so nasty...

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PinkandBlueDaisy · 24/05/2025 15:56

She never conserves with me properly any more. She will never ask about me. She will never ask how I slept or how I am or how my day was. She just doesn't care about me.

There was a day earlier in the week when I went home and she never talked to me properly. I asked her about her day. She never asked me about how I was or how my day was and then it was only just followed by silence from her. No conversation. The silence was deafening from her.

She was only ever talking to me now whenever she wants something out of me. That's it. Her current request as of today is wanting me to shop online for her to find matching bed sheets of a fitted and flat sheet. We are due visitors in the summer. There are plenty of bed clothes at home because she took many of my own bed clothes. They just just fitted sheets. There are plenty. But she wants flat sheets. She wants me to get them from online. She doesn't have a bank card so it will be from my account. She does usually pay me back whenever she wants me to get something but there were incidents before where she didn't pay me back and she argued with me. I just feel maybe this might be one of those times. She wants at least two matching sets of bedclothes. I know her sometimes when she gets me to start sometimes she changes the goalposts. Then because the visitors coming for the summer is sibling from abroad she may pull a fast one when it comes to paying me back by saying they are my family too. But we have bedclothes in the home and these are her wants and wishes.

I just feel so used. She will never talk to me properly and ask about me. And will only talk to me whenever she wants to something from me. Just using me.

OP posts:
Flipslop · 24/05/2025 15:58

This is an oddly worded AI kinda feeling post

AliasGraced · 24/05/2025 16:00

Walk away

YinYangalang · 24/05/2025 16:07

How old are you? Do you live with her? Have you ever lived independently?

BunnyRuddington · 25/05/2025 08:59

Do you live with her @PinkandBlueDaisy?

vodkaredbullgirl · 25/05/2025 09:07

😕

TorroFerney · 13/06/2025 19:08

Flipslop · 24/05/2025 15:58

This is an oddly worded AI kinda feeling post

It might be the poster who repeatedly posts about living with her mum and how awful her mum is but will never answer why she lives with her mum or respond to suggestions she moves out. There is always a family visit on the cards.

ButteredRadish · 13/06/2025 20:59

Bed clothes are pyjamas not actual clothes for the bed 🤭

Shinyandnew1 · 13/06/2025 21:01

It might be the poster who repeatedly posts about living with her mum and how awful her mum is but will never answer why she lives with her mum or respond to suggestions she moves out. There is always a family visit on the cards.

Yes, I think that's the one.

BunnyRuddington · 13/06/2025 21:11

I think that’s the one too. This is why I asked if she lives with her.

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