Hi,
I’m embarrassed to be in my early 40’s with parents who live around 10-15 mins away who often can be overbearing, I know I’m lucky to have them still but it’s reached a point where they nearly, if they haven’t already caused trouble with my employer whilst I been of sick not well in a hospital. I mean they both know how to google and if they’d seen articles on nf they’d see people look like they are in ITU not a normal ward.
I can only think to get more involved with my brother who is successful at having less needs with them. He has a partner who only visits them once a year.
Try getting a partner (worst case) as I have rather lived on my own 2 decades.
When the doctor kindly put them in their place earlier this evening and said discharge is looking possible for tomorrow, their face was a picture and I had to lip thank the doctor.
In the days leading up to hospitalisation I’d let things go where I felt so rough which they’ve clearly walked into over this whole episode to which today I’ve said sorry, we need to draw a line and I won’t let it get so bad ever again now the diabetes could be back so more important then ever I look after me and my heath. I accept recovery from cellulitis isn’t next week and could take a while but it is better then that other condition.
I just don’t know what else if anything I can do.