My dad arrived on holiday with us and has been a complete pain. He arrived with an awful cold and has been coughing without covering his mouth right in our faces. He's being moody and rude to me constantly and gets very aggressive if asked not to do something. Honestly wish we hadn't invited him, but made to feel guilty if we don't. He waits to be made food for even though I've made it clear he can sort his own breakfast/lunch and I'd cook the evening meal. He won't tidy up after himself or help with any daily chores like dishwasher/rubbish out etc. If you ask him he gets in a major mood and makes out he's being picked on. Our first week was lovely just us but I'm not even enjoying this week of our holidays as he ruins the energy of every room he walks into. Even in restaurants he's awkward/angry and I keep trying to sit on other ends of the table but end up somehow being near him...suspect everyone else also doing the same thing! How do you deal with someone like this? Saying something will cause an almighty row. We have to clean the accomodation before the next guests and I know he'll refuse (even though no one else makes any where near as much mess as hin!) What would you do?
He has a new partner who seems to have amplified this bad behaviour and his whole personality has really changed. He has always been ranty /angry but the entitledness is completely ramped up. His house is messy at home but he and her seem oblivious to it and make out she's some kind of domestic god, I'm not sure how they've made themselves believe this but us and other family have been horrified by the uncleanness!