Dear all
I have 2 elderly parents; DM who has middle stage alzheimers and DF who is physically getting more frail recently and who cares for DM.
Is it just as easy for me to apply for AA as for him to do it? My mum could sign the form if necessary, but she's decidedly combative about her health (nothing wrong with her!) and would likely be better if just kept out of it entirely. DF finds the keeping her out of it very difficult and hence has not applied for any benefits at all and she is even kicking out at a cleaner as "her house is not dirty". He has a good pension so is not likely to be entitled to anything but AA anyway.
I do have financial and medical POA for both of them, as does my DS.