I have loads of threads so apologies.
I care for my oldie (attempting to anonymise who they are. Not a parent) long distance. I have PoA. They are a hoarder and have a severely neglected house. Since I've been seriously involved their capacity has taken a major nose dive.
The house badly needs new double glazing. Oldie has been intending to do it for >15 years. I couldn't sit by as an attorney and ignore the situation as the house needs to be wind and water tight both for oldies comfort and because I think it is highly likely the house will be empty for a period of time between them going into residential care (which feels imminent) and us managing to de-hoard it to sell. There are valuables mixed in with rubbish so this won't be an easy job.
Started process around November. Told all companies involved that oldie can permit access but all contractural stuff needs to be done with me.
Chose a small local company based on price and personal recommendations. WAs really happy with decision until today.
They went round yesterday to do a final measure up. The person who went round got the oldie (despite a big notice up in her hallway saying "I need to discuss all financial things with me PoA - my phone number") and my email communications with the company to sign the contract.
Oldie has only just told me about this despite phoning me yesterday to tell me that the guys had left.
During the conversation it became aware that oldie wasn't even aware that we already had a price from this company, doesn't know any of the T&Cs they have signed or anything really.
I just feel massively let down by this company. I've been explicit at all stages that the oldie is vulnerable and it feels like they have completely abused her.
I've contacted the company owner who I've had all previous dealings with to tell them how disappointed I am and that the contract is invalid as oldie doesn't have capacity. I've copied in my legal professional sibling who is the second PoA on their recognisable work email address to try to minimise any fucking about.
But I just feel totally and utterly let down and sad.