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Power of Attorney

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jollyhollyday · 13/11/2024 20:17

Hi may be a silly question but me and my brother were going to become my DFs POA but with my DM still alive and well should she also be one too?
I don't want to leave her off if she will be making decisions for my DF
Any help would be appreciated thank you

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22mumsynet · 13/11/2024 20:32

You can all be an attorney. Be aware that if appointed ‘jointly’ you will have to make every decision together whereas is ‘jointly and severally’ can act together or independently. If appointed jointly, if one dies then LPA won’t work anymore. For this reason jointly and severally is often recommended.

jollyhollyday · 13/11/2024 21:09

Thank you @22mumsynet

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MereDintofPandiculation · 14/11/2024 09:35

You can also have replacement attorneys, eg you and you DM, with your brother as replacement if one of you dies or becomes incapable. The guidance notes that can be downloaded with the form are good on the detail.

Harassedevictee · 14/11/2024 09:48

Definitely have your Mum as a POA for her husband as she is most likely to know what he would want.

Mum5net · 14/11/2024 11:44

And get yours, DB's and DM's done at the same time.
It's never too early to get POA
Remember Kate Garraway and Derek Draper's situation?
Bear in mind what @MereDintofPandiculation says up thread, you can have replacement attorneys further down the line...

jollyhollyday · 14/11/2024 17:31

Thank you all!!

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