Dad's mental health

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My Dad is mid 70s, worked professionally till his late 60s, has always been active into cycling and travelling. Since retiring has gradually become more withdrawn, although does do some voluntary work. He lives alone. He had a period of depression in his teens and in his 40s. He came out of both and was very positive in his 50s and 60s. This time he is not coming out of it, and has now not left the house in a couple of weeks. I have been round to see him and so has another friend. I have suggested things which he agrees to but doesn't do. Not sure what to do next. Thank you

Would he agree to you contacting his GP? If he will, do so.

If out of hours and yoyre getting more worried, call 111 - they have mental health nurses. But definitely GP to start.

If you are urgently worried, don't hesitate to take him to A&E if he will go, or call an ambulance.

Thank you that is useful.

I would try to organise a visit to the GP. As well as that I would ask him to come with me to various activities and events for the company. Garden centre, cafe, park, swimming, coffee morning, local market etc

Things he might enjoy that you can initially go with him are: card games, board games, walking group and other social activities where he can be around people.

You can ask your local Age UK, look in the paper, check out Facebook, look on meetup.com and there will be local groups that hold activities and events. If he goes to church, they may also have things he can get involved in.

Thank you