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Blocking unwanted calls to vulnerable elderly relative

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Thisoldheartofmine · 12/07/2024 18:41

She has landline and quite old BT phones. A set of 3.
Thinking of buying True call with the option of only allowing identified numbers through.
A system which works by an individual manually pushing buttons to block numbers wouldn't work.
Any experience?

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Thisoldheartofmine · 13/07/2024 07:32

@Ihateslugs thank you , yes that describes true call really well .I wish we had put it in place years ago!
She is so targeted , it's unbelievable.
@Chicagodog wow, that is some piece of information. Thank you.

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Thisoldheartofmine · 13/07/2024 07:52

Somebody up thread did say trading standards but I can't find the post now to thank them.
I didn't understand the reference at the time and was googling to see if there was a call blocker with that name !

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Dolphinnoises · 13/07/2024 07:55

One low tech option would be to simply change her number… after my father in law fell for a scam, the calls were like a tsunami…. He’d obviously been added to some sort of “suckers list”

cupcaske123 · 13/07/2024 07:58

So I looked up the facility on Talk Talk it's called Call Safe:

CallSafe is the perfect way to stop nuisance callers. It’s completely free and you can use it to screen and block unwanted calls. Every time you get a call, CallSafe checks to make sure it's someone you want to hear from. The caller is then either:
Approved and put straight through to you.
Blocked so that your phone doesn't ring.
Screened to confirm who they are.

Iudncuewbccgrcb · 13/07/2024 08:00

olympicsrock · 12/07/2024 23:12

Please don’t do this. I’m a hospital doctor. It is a nightmare contacting people for urgent appointments and information when their phones block the unknown number call.

There is not always time to send a letter.

You probably need to suggest to your trust that they use a single local number to make all of their outward bound calls on.

its what our trust does - it doesn't matter if you get a call from e.g. an outpatients clinic or a district nurse it's the same telephone number that calls you, if you miss the call and try to call back the number you get a recorded message saying 'someone from NHS TRUST is trying to call you and will call back'.

it means people can save the number as a safe number and stops all the issues of people increasingly not answering a withheld number.

123letsblaze · 13/07/2024 08:27

It's so irritating when hospitals call from withheld numbers. It's probably to stop people from calling that number back, but there needs to be a way of doing it where you can save a number. Maybe they can block inbound calls instead. People don't and shouldn't trust withheld numbers.

Thisoldheartofmine · 13/07/2024 10:03

@Dolphinnoises you know changing the number is a genius idea.
I'll need to check with closer relatives if there are distant contacts who might be affected.
I'm not that close , we are divying up jobs.
I guess GP, carers, hospital etc would need updating.

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WowIlikereallyhateyou · 13/07/2024 13:24

Thisoldheartofmine · 12/07/2024 20:46

"you save any numbers you want to let through, anyone else has to press 1 then leave a message on it"
@WowIlikereallyhateyou does Call Guardian do this?

Yes you can permanently accept or block numbers.

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 13/07/2024 13:26

olympicsrock · 12/07/2024 23:12

Please don’t do this. I’m a hospital doctor. It is a nightmare contacting people for urgent appointments and information when their phones block the unknown number call.

There is not always time to send a letter.

The bt phone doesnt do this. The dr would have to annouce him/herself and then the call would be accepted or declined by the recipient

MultipleCarrierBags · 13/07/2024 15:24

Change the phone number works for a while
Then the scammers appear again !

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