Hi all! Firstly thanks for the helpful comments on my last thread. I decided to go my holiday. However it’s been rocky. After 4 years of ignoring my mum her sisters asked to see her. I said yes and asked them to contact me to arrange. My cousin that I once trusted took it upon himself to hand out the key box code and they’ve been letting themselves in (I own property) without telling me. I asked them in a group chat to stop but was ignored. They broke the keys and I had to get a new key box fitted and change code.
Unfortunately, when my son was at work and with me away, cousin went to my mums door and started banging on it when he couldn’t get access to key box. We had an argument on the phone and he threatened to phone police and take her to my aunts house. My son gave him code to stop the upsetting of my mum. I have council carers in 3 times a day, plus my son visiting every day and overnight private carers. I was distraught last night and text private carer to see how she was. DM was chatting away and having a cuppa with her. I’m considering calling police myself now as they are causing her (and us) distress. Has anyone done this and could I get a restraining order? Thanks again and hope your troubles are easing!