My dad (late 70s, dementia and heart failure) is in sheltered housing in Scotland. I'm in south England, but my brother lives nearby.
Dad had a social services referral and now has carers in 3 times a day and a cleaner twice a week which is paid for by his attendance allowance.
His mobility is not very good and he has urinary incontinence but refusing to wear the pants, so is needing a lot of washing.
the carers don't seem to do much caring, just give him his meds and sign a book? there is a sign up to remind them to "Offer a Meal" however.
My brother and family are doing quite a bit, for example sorting stuff out and we have been waiting to hear if he is offered a care home place, but have heard it will be a long wait.
Does anyone know what might happen as he needs more care in the meantime? Thanks