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Elderly parents

Toenails

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Aparecium · 30/01/2024 19:09

DM has developed a fear of chiropodists, and only wants me to trim her toenails. A few are so bulky and distorted that I cannot cut them. The best I can do is soak her feet and then clip off tiny bits to reduce their height.

Would an electric nail file work? Would the vibration cause dm pain? Is there a hygiene aspect that I need to take into account?

Can anyone advise me on this?

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StiffyByngsDogBartholomew · 30/01/2024 19:51

carers aren't allowed to touch toenails because there is something risky to do with trimming them, I'm not sure but someone will hopefully be along that can clarify. I won't do mums toenails, I cut her fingernails and paint her toes but trimming is definitely a professionals job. Can you work on the fear at all ?

AprilRoche · 30/01/2024 20:08

Will she let you file them a little every day? To keep the growth down? Filing is usually gentler than clipping.

Aparecium · 30/01/2024 20:13

I would have thought that's because of the risk of cutting in a rush and developing an infection, and that health problems such as diabetes-related damage might be missed if the person is not seen by a HCP.

But I'm not in any rush when I see dm. It's not like a carer who has to be in and out in 20minutes. I can take my time with her. I also do not cut her nails short, just trim slightly. I then cream and massage her feet and ankles, so I will notice if she develops any other problems. Fortunately dm does not have diabetes.

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Aparecium · 30/01/2024 20:14

AprilRoche · 30/01/2024 20:08

Will she let you file them a little every day? To keep the growth down? Filing is usually gentler than clipping.

That's why I'm considering an electric nail file.

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AprilRoche · 30/01/2024 20:22

Sorry I missed the electric reference. The problem with the electric files is that they have a tendency to nick the skin if not used expertly. I would be minded to stick with a metal hand file.

MereDintofPandiculation · 30/01/2024 20:22

My DF and DH use a foot care specialist- shorter training than a podiatrist and she doesn’t do the medical stuff. She uses a grinding stone, rather like this one DH says it doesn’t hurt and DF hasn’t complained.

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