Short history: FIL has dementia which has been steadily worsening, but MIL has been managing to look after him at home, with some carers coming in and a bit of residential respite. In the last couple of weeks, the confusion has grown suddenly much worse, and GP diagnosed a UTI and prescribed antibiotics. So far, after a week or so, they don't seem to be making much improvement in the confusion.
The hope is that the UTI will resolve, and he'll return to his baseline. But from what I've read on here and elsewhere, it could take days, weeks or never for that to happen. Question is, how long do you wait before making any permanent decisions? MIL is struggling to cope on the previous level of care, given the increased confusion. Past experience suggests that a change of environment (eg bringing different carers in or sending FIL in for a temporary stay in the care home) are likely to make the confusion worse in the short term, particularly given his current state, and may reduce the chances of his confusion improving as he recovers from the UTI.
It may be that this is the turning point and that permanent residential care is now the only option. But equally it's hard to feel confident that that's the right decision on the basis of a possibly temporary decline that could improve in a relatively short time. But how long do you struggle through and wait to see if the 'recovery' happens?
Any similar experiences?