My 82 yo dad fell in the garden and fractured his hip. He’s in hospital now. They aren’t operating but looking at rehab. He’s in lots of pain and on lots of medication and having short physio sessions to get him moving.
The hospital are talking about moving him to a care home for intermediate care until he can move more and use the toilet independently . He really doesn’t want this. My mum, who has some health challenges herself, is at home and can drive and cook. They live in a bungalow. I think with help he could get home but obviously this would need daily care visits, OT assessment and home based physio. I feel this would be a better option as mentally he will struggle in residential care. He’s scared he may never come out!
i appreciate the can’t force him into a care home but wondered what options were, how to approach this etc. the hospital aren’t great at communicating and unfortunately I live aboard. So can’t advocate easily.
Any advice welcome.