My mother in law has to go into residential care. She currently lives in London (Brent) and all of her family live in Hertfordshire so we have asked that the home be near us. Does anyone have any experience of how the funding works when it is in another part of the country? She will not be self funding so Social Services will be paying-the Brent Social Worker was a bit vague as to how this works in reality and if or when do Herts County Council take over the funding. HCC have said that I need to speak to Brent and Brent are saying I need to speak to HCC. I am concerned that Brent will agree to pay a certain amount and we find a suitable care home and then HCC take over and say the fees are too much. I don't want to have to move her again as it has taken some persuading to get to this stage.