Hi
Hoping the Mumsnet masses can help me.
My grandmother has had 2 strokes in the last 4 months but is fighting on. After some rehabilitation she has been returned home and has a carer 3 times a day for 45 mins.
She also happens to live with my uncle who is also now very unwell with MS.
I live an hour away and her private carer who she was paying through her government given attendance allowance is AWOL due to "missed payments"
My mum passed away and my siblings want nothing to do with my gran so it's basically me.
I'm struggling with work and my own family but trying my best to get over there and help as much as possible.
I have tried to contact her local council on what can be done for cleaning and general house upkeep and haven't heard back.
Is this usually privately done?? I have no idea how her house will stay clean, my uncle struggles a lot and is getting worse and he's asked if I can get someone to help
It's a mini nightmare, any advice?!