My Dad 80, has Alzheimer's, he received the formal diagnosis last August. At the memory clinic they gave me information to apply for Attendance allowance, although I haven't done so yet as I'm not sure whether he is bad enough to warrant it.
He still lives alone, and can just about manage with help from cleaner/gardener and my sister and I. He is able to potter to the local shops every day to get a paper and a ready meal and can cook the ready meal himself in microwave. He can get himself to a lunch club just down the road.
He manages by having a non-varying routine, he writes reminders, and my sister or I call him daily to check he knows what he needs to do that day and has taken his various medications.
He is very forgetful though, but it so far seems to be declining slowly. He also has started wearing my late mother's clothes and other women's clothing he's purchased from charity shops.
In terms of care needs we installed a elderly bath/shower to avoid falls but he can get in/out himself, and we need to remove out of date food from his fridge as he's made himself sick on several occasions.
Does it sound too soon to apply for AA?