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Elderly parents

Person going into care home thinks they have avoided selling their house to pay fees?

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LindorDoubleChoc · 11/08/2023 19:59

A distant relative has just sadly gone into care (dementia). He is not married but has a long-term partner with whom he has two adult children.

His family seem to think he won't have to sell his property to pay for the fees because "he has put his house in his son's name". I'm trying to think what this means and surely if it were that simple everyone would do it?

Are they misunderstanding the system? Or how could they have achieved this? They are in England.

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Peeeas · 14/08/2023 18:41

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 17:13

Please correct me if I am wrong here, but as I understand it when a home is put in trust, the land registry details don't change until the owner of the house dies. When they die, the trust then kicks in.

If you settle assets on a lifetime trust, then you no longer own that asset and the land registry should be updated. If you provide for a will trust of the house, that trust doesn't come into effect until the will comes into effect (i.e. death of the testator). So it depends on approach. The tax consequences will generally be quite different between those two examples.

Peeeas · 14/08/2023 18:44

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 17:57

Yes, that is what my cousin and his wife have done. You have to make sure everything is watertight, so you can't get turfed out on a whim or if the children get a 'dodgy' partner who insists the parents need to kicked out to free up some assets.

The house remains within the estate for iht in this case (gift with reservation), but of course it's still potentially useful if the main object is to get assets to DC early (assuming tax implications are fully understood).

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 18:56

Peeeas · 14/08/2023 18:44

The house remains within the estate for iht in this case (gift with reservation), but of course it's still potentially useful if the main object is to get assets to DC early (assuming tax implications are fully understood).

I didn't discuss the tax implications with them. They just told me that they had set up a trust with both their DC being the trustees.

Marylou62 · 14/08/2023 18:56

Redrunnynose · 13/08/2023 21:07

But what happens if you sell your house to pay for a care home and the money runs out ? at 7k a month, if a person stays there for 3 years that's £252k, so when the money has gone who pays that 7k a month or are you moved to a council run care home ?

As we worked with social services a place was found in a home where she can stay when her half a million has gone..she has Alzheimer's but is physically well...so that will only last 6 years ish...if we'd found the home by ourselves she'd have been asked to leave..

Baconisdelicious · 14/08/2023 19:08

But what happens if you sell your house to pay for a care home and the money runs out ? at 7k a month, if a person stays there for 3 years that's £252k, so when the money has gone who pays that 7k a month or are you moved to a council run care home ?

You will be subject to funding rules. LA will pay what it will pay. Care home accepts it, the family makes up the difference or you find somewhere cheaper.

JaukiVexnoydi · 14/08/2023 19:13

Baconisdelicious · 14/08/2023 19:08

But what happens if you sell your house to pay for a care home and the money runs out ? at 7k a month, if a person stays there for 3 years that's £252k, so when the money has gone who pays that 7k a month or are you moved to a council run care home ?

You will be subject to funding rules. LA will pay what it will pay. Care home accepts it, the family makes up the difference or you find somewhere cheaper.

Some care homes are run on a basis that if you have been self-funding for a specified minimum duration, then they guarantee not to turf you out if the money runs out even if they would normally require higher fees and don't accept "new" residents without topup. My grandmother chose a place to move into when the time came specifically for that important feature.

AnneElliott · 14/08/2023 19:18

I thought the property was disregarded if a partner lived there? So it might not be the fact that the son bows owns it that means it's 'safe' but because the partner legitimately lives there?

JaukiVexnoydi · 14/08/2023 19:25

AnneElliott · 14/08/2023 19:18

I thought the property was disregarded if a partner lived there? So it might not be the fact that the son bows owns it that means it's 'safe' but because the partner legitimately lives there?

The property isn't disregarded but it doesn't have to be sold. The LA will put a "charge" onto the deeds of a property which is owned by someone receiving care home accommodation but where the house is still occupied by a partner. Nothing happens until the surviving partner dies or requires care themselves, or the property is sold. By co-owning with a member of the next generation the charge could be deferred for longer - interest would accrue but usually the interest rate is less than house price inflation - but would still be due eventually.

Marylou62 · 14/08/2023 19:56

LexCake · 13/08/2023 18:12

This is one of the best posts on this thread, in my view. I’m bracing myself for the fact that my parents could similarly use all of their assets (which are modest) to pay for care, not that there is any indication yet that they need it. So your sensible words hit home with me.

By contrast, slightly shocked at the number of people who seem intent on dodging the system, when “getting away with it” means cheating the public purse and consigning a loved one to the poorest level of care.

Thank you for your support...
Fortunately we worked with social services so when Mum's half a million pounds is gone she'll be able to stay there.. she's physically well so she could be in her secure dementia unit for a long time...
Out Dad died after a very long illness and we were very sad but we are all devastated by what is happening to our wonderful Mum.. knowing how safe and well cared for she is has softened me and my siblings 'loss' of our inheritance..
I'm not surprised tho by a lot of these comments..not many made by people who 'deprived' themselves of assets and regret it or indeed any on adult children who've spent their parents money and now realise the care those parents are getting..
It's easy to say 'I'd never pay that' ..'I want my kids to inherit ' etc ..but when you're actually faced with it...well.. it's very different...

Ohpleeeease · 14/08/2023 20:19

JaukiVexnoydi · 14/08/2023 19:25

The property isn't disregarded but it doesn't have to be sold. The LA will put a "charge" onto the deeds of a property which is owned by someone receiving care home accommodation but where the house is still occupied by a partner. Nothing happens until the surviving partner dies or requires care themselves, or the property is sold. By co-owning with a member of the next generation the charge could be deferred for longer - interest would accrue but usually the interest rate is less than house price inflation - but would still be due eventually.

The property is disregarded if a partner lives there. It doesn’t form part of the financial assessment.

MereDintofPandiculation · 15/08/2023 09:50

angstridden2 · 14/08/2023 11:49

I’m sure greater minds than mine have considered this, but to overcome the regional difference in house prices could a percentage of its value be used as the cap rather than a flat amount. Tbh it’s academic though as Boris’s oven ready idea has been kicked into the long grass and I expect it won’t reappear for a long time regardless of who is in power. I do feel a bit aggrieved that having worked hard all our lives my children could only be left with £23,500 between them.

Someone mentioned the other day that their care fees were capped at 22.5 per cent of their house value. So one country makes it work

MereDintofPandiculation · 15/08/2023 09:52

countrygirl99 · 14/08/2023 11:54

You do realise a lot of people work hard but for low wages that mean they don't build up.assets. Those carers, for example, will need to pay more tax so you can have a lot of money when you are dead.

The way round that is increase inheritance tax for everyone, not take everything from a random sample of 1 in 5 (those needing care) and leave everyone else untouched.

BorgQueen · 15/08/2023 09:53

God the misinformation on this thread.
They don’t put a bloody charge on the house if a spouse or dependant adult live there.
It is completely disregarded.
Get your facts right before commenting.

countrygirl99 · 15/08/2023 09:55

MereDintofPandiculation · 15/08/2023 09:52

The way round that is increase inheritance tax for everyone, not take everything from a random sample of 1 in 5 (those needing care) and leave everyone else untouched.

I'd be fully in favour of that but which party would dare suggest it. Quickest way to electoral annihilation.

MereDintofPandiculation · 15/08/2023 10:03

I think 7 years must elapse before the house is no longer considered for care home fees. I also think there were some new rules whereby the people in whose name the house was put must pay rent to the previous owner and show that they have paid rent. No, this is a widespread misapprehension. What you are talking about is removing the house from liability for inheritance tax. It has absolutely no relevance to care home fees. There is no time limit on how far back the LA can go in assessing deprivation of assets.

I do think it is unfair when nearly all of a house's value can be taken to pay for care fees. I think it would be much fairer if every property over a certain value was liable for a small percentage to be be paid into a government account ring-fenced exclusively for care fees. Political football. This has been suggested, as was a scheme where everyone of retirement age paid into insurance for care. One was labelled “death tax” and kicked out, the other “dementia tax” and kicked out.

@Daisychainreactions See above. What you’re talking about is IHT. It doesn’t apply to care.

Rosscameasdoody · 16/08/2023 15:22

BorgQueen · 15/08/2023 09:53

God the misinformation on this thread.
They don’t put a bloody charge on the house if a spouse or dependant adult live there.
It is completely disregarded.
Get your facts right before commenting.

Yep, you can also get a disregard for a a close relative over 60, or with a disability, a dependant child under 16 cared for by an occupier of the home, and for a carer who gave up their own home to care for the person going into care. The circumstances are regularly assessed so if circumstances change the house will become available for assessment - for example if the qualifying occupier moves out or dies. And the disregard only applies to that particular home, so if it’s sold to allow the occupier to downsize, any remaining unused funds from the sale would be assessed for care fees. Not sure whether the LA could claim fees back if the home is sold once the person in care dies, given that there is no charge attached.

AInightingale · 18/08/2023 12:23

Just wondering about these rules. If a child of the homeowner, ie the elderly person needing care, is renting privately but decides to move into the house with their children for a better quality of life, and one of those children is registered disabled, does that count as an exemption? (ie a grandchild). Or does it have to be the disabled, adult child of the homeowner?

BorgQueen · 18/08/2023 13:00

If it’s at the point that a care home is needed, I imagine the council taking a very dim view of their family moving in, even at full rent it’s unlikely to cover care fees.
If they’d been living there for years it would be different.
Can’t see it being ok but proper advice is needed.

Ohpleeeease · 18/08/2023 20:39

Age UK have an excellent fact sheet on funding care. It answers most of what’s been asked here.

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2023 22:24

AInightingale · 18/08/2023 12:23

Just wondering about these rules. If a child of the homeowner, ie the elderly person needing care, is renting privately but decides to move into the house with their children for a better quality of life, and one of those children is registered disabled, does that count as an exemption? (ie a grandchild). Or does it have to be the disabled, adult child of the homeowner?

The rules specify that it must be a close relative of the person going into care, either over the age of 60, under the age of 18, or disabled. They must also have occupied the home before the adult went into care, and it must be their only home. The reasoning behind it is so that a vulnerable relative wouldn’t be made homeless by the sale of the house. The LA’s have the power to disregard a property into which a qualifying relative has moved after the person enters care, but they would have to have a sound reason for doing so, and if they’re found to have made themselves intentionally homeless in order to benefit, the property won’t be disregarded and they would have to apply for a deferred payment agreement.

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2023 22:26

BorgQueen · 18/08/2023 13:00

If it’s at the point that a care home is needed, I imagine the council taking a very dim view of their family moving in, even at full rent it’s unlikely to cover care fees.
If they’d been living there for years it would be different.
Can’t see it being ok but proper advice is needed.

If the relative qualifies for an exemption, then they can still move in to the home after the person goes into care, but there must be a good reason - for example that they would be homeless otherwise.

AInightingale · 19/08/2023 00:28

I wonder if coming to the ned of a tenancy agreement qualifies as 'homeless'? I was just thinking this as there is such a mad scramble for rentals at the moment, so many landlords selling up. A lot of families are really in crisis when it comes to housing, why shouldn't they live in a relative's empty home? A deferred payment option might be a good idea.

AInightingale · 19/08/2023 00:29

'The end' not 'the ned'. I really should go to bed.

Rosscameasdoody · 19/08/2023 09:56

AInightingale · 19/08/2023 00:28

I wonder if coming to the ned of a tenancy agreement qualifies as 'homeless'? I was just thinking this as there is such a mad scramble for rentals at the moment, so many landlords selling up. A lot of families are really in crisis when it comes to housing, why shouldn't they live in a relative's empty home? A deferred payment option might be a good idea.

Anyone moving in would still have to be vulnerable according to the exemption conditions though - the exemptions are there to stop potentially vulnerable people becoming homeless as a result of the sale of the home, and the rules are strict. A deferred payment option also has its’ drawbacks. There are arrangement fees and interest is applied to the loan, which reduces the funding pot for the person in care. And when that person dies, the LA expect the care bill to be settled within 90 days. I expect there’s some leeway when the funds can only be realised from the sale of the home, but it’s still a lot of pressure to be put under, potentially at short notice.

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 20/08/2023 13:48

So if someone goes into care but they co-own the house with another elderly relative then the local authority can’t put a charge on the house at all? What if the house was then sold at a later date? I’ve got an aunt 90+ living with my cousin who is 70+; if aunt goes into a care home my cousin says she’s been told they will charge 2% interest from that date until she sells up so she thinks she’ll need to sell
very quickly. I don’t know where she’s got this from but she is adamant.

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