I just had my 4th baby and had to stay in hospital for 3 days because I have really bad shortness of breath however I’m much better now and have recovered back home.
so my problem is my mum has come over to stay and help out which of course I appreciate but she interferes in my marriage constantly feeding my husband that’s she needs to do this that and the other she’s not organised where’s the food help your husband why do you give her this amount of money where we should shop and so on and just tries to cuase a stir between me and him.I already have low self esteem and they always talk in a condescending way like I don’t know how to look after my house or kids my husband respects her which of course it’s a good thing I have no problem with that but the problem I have is that he agrees to everything she says and well my options don’t count everything she says is spot on because she’s elder I need to change I can’t look after the house properly I’m not a good enough wife housewife or mother I just feel it a lot my mum previously did this before I told her to stop she doesn’t listen today I told her that stop interfering she says to me how dare you talk to your mother like that and I’m a bitch.
m I feel my husband treats me like shit like I’m lazy can’t do anything I’m just sick of it I feel as if I’m the crazy one.