I have noticed some changes in my Mum, 72 recently and am just a bit concerned and am not sure if this is just her getting older or is the start of something. She worked in a professional job for 40 years and was always very sharp and switched on.
I have just noticed recently that she has stopped asking any questions or taking an interest in anything. We were out for a meal recently and I was sitting beside her having not seen her for a while and she just didn't seem to have anything to say. Even basic things like asking how I was or taking a bit of interest in the GC. I was asking questions like how is your meal? And asking about family members, how is this one and how is that one and getting yes fine and then just sitting eating her meal and not really engaging with close family.
I have noticed recently too that when phoning her she doesn't really have much to say and it is me trying to fill the conversation about our lives which sometimes she doesn't really seem to be that interested in. Also slow to pick up on things. My Dad in contast is older but very engaged and switched on and you could have a chat with him and it doesn't seem that long ago she was like that too, filling me in about neighbour's and cousins and people I knew years ago.
Physical health for her is good. This is all new to me and I just don't know if this is normal and to be expected or if this is the start of something. Has anyone experienced similar?
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Stressmess · 30/04/2023 08:45
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