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Elderly parents

What happens if there’s nobody to administer an estate?

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Underthehills · 04/09/2022 18:35

I don’t want to administer my Dad’s estate. He is at the end of terminal illness, is losing capacity, and is going to die intestate and in debt. I know from a lifetime of experience that there will be debts/other things I have no idea about and I have no intention of being caught up in them, especially as I could potentially be held liable for missing them. I am his only living relative and there is absolutely nobody else to do it. What happens if I refuse? If there is anything left in the estate after paying debts it will be under £1000 and there’s no provision for a funeral so that would all be swallowed up in funeral costs. It may sound harsh but I have spent my life rebuilding from the devastation of my childhood due to his irresponsibility on many fronts so I don’t feel obliged to deal with this now.

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AceSpades54321 · 04/09/2022 19:40

Don’t worry you won’t be liable for his debts (unless you acted as a guarantor or are a co-signatory of the debt). The debts should be taken from his estate (any savings/properties he has), if there is nothing left over then the debts will be written off.

hattie43 · 04/09/2022 19:45

I'm guessing you can't go to jail for not doing it so if anyone comes knocking just say you can't cope with it .

Underthehills · 04/09/2022 21:54

@AceSpades54321 I won’t be liable for his debts unless there’s something I fail to uncover and administrate properly. Then you can be personally liable for the sum outstanding. That’s not time limited, it can arise at any time for the rest of your life if it’s found you made a mistake, even unwittingly. It’s quite likely there are things I don’t know about so I’m not prepared to take the risk.

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titchy · 04/09/2022 21:55

His local authority will do it.

JennyMule · 04/09/2022 22:08

If your father made a will naming you as executor (seems unlikely, given what you say about disorganised finances) you can refuse to act and can renounce the role www.gov.uk/government/publications/form-pa15-give-up-probate-executor-rights.
If he dies intestate you need do nothing. The local district or borough council will arrange a public health funeral. They will try to persuade you to do so yourself but you are under no obligation to do so or take any steps at all regarding his affairs. I'm very sorry you are in this situation and hope you manage to prioritise your own well-being.

Underthehills · 04/09/2022 22:10

@titchy ah, that’s useful. I had wondered. He has been the subject of two safeguarding referrals so they are already involved. I will ask them.

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Underthehills · 04/09/2022 22:10

@JennyMule thank you.

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ivykaty44 · 04/09/2022 22:17

Just be aware if the council do arrange the funeral, then I’m not sure that any person will be able to attend. I’ve had some dealings with my local council over similar - but each council may differ. Just giving you the information so you know what May crop up

if you do not want to pay for a funeral, which is your right to do, then you must not start to arrange a funeral or contact an undertakers. That’ll be seen by the council as you taking responsibility for the funeral.

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