I don’t want to administer my Dad’s estate. He is at the end of terminal illness, is losing capacity, and is going to die intestate and in debt. I know from a lifetime of experience that there will be debts/other things I have no idea about and I have no intention of being caught up in them, especially as I could potentially be held liable for missing them. I am his only living relative and there is absolutely nobody else to do it. What happens if I refuse? If there is anything left in the estate after paying debts it will be under £1000 and there’s no provision for a funeral so that would all be swallowed up in funeral costs. It may sound harsh but I have spent my life rebuilding from the devastation of my childhood due to his irresponsibility on many fronts so I don’t feel obliged to deal with this now.