My aunt had a deprivation of liberty safeguard review today and (as she has done continually for the past 6 months) has insisted that she wants to go home from the care home back to her house. Setting aside the fact that she didn't own the house and it has now been sold, she really doesn't have capacity, as evidenced by the fact that she has had to be readmitted to hospital today following discharge from hospital last week as she refuses to follow the advice of the hospital.
She has Alzheimer's with Dementia and had been rapidly going downhill and refusing any care prior to a suicide attempt earlier this year that resulted in the care home placement for long term care.
I have LPA for both finances and health, however she has become fixated on the fact that I have stolen everything from her (sold the house that she didn't own, and taken all her money) I can demonstrate that this isn't true, so I'm not worried about that, but they are also looking into how I got the LPAs given that she now seems to hate me and has forgotten signing the forms over 14 months ago.
The care home are clear that in their opinion she does not have capacity. But this DOLS assessor feels that she does because she was able to consistently state over a 30 minute period the same thing - that she wants to go home and that her sister will look after her. For reference her sister is dead, and the other one she hasn't spoken to for 30 years, but why let the truth get in the way.
I feel so bloody upset and annoyed. I know that the council have to do assessments but when what she is saying is so clearly not the truth it seems ridiculous to progress the S21a hearing.
Has anyone been through this or got any advice because I just want to cry. I've done my absolute best to look after her best interests and this feels like a punch in the gut.