I am calling them 'protective pants' because I can't face typing 'incontinence pads' in a thread heading.
My parent has these Tena-style pants from Boots, with 10 droplets fully filled in to denote they're very protective, they are, that said they still seem to go through to the bed/pyjamas sometimes.
When my late mother was in a care home for many years they had sort of wrap-around pants. I don't see these in Boots or anywhere though. Do you know where I'd get them? They never really seemed to leak, or at least rarely. Does anyone have any ideas? Are they a care home speciality?