Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Elderly parents

See all MNHQ comments on this thread

Any other options Direct payments vs care company

27 replies

Chaoplexatologist · 08/10/2021 22:43

Hi I wonder if anybody could give me some advice hopefully somebody who has recently used direct payments it's for peers or use the carer agency. Someone who has used both would be ideal answering as I don't know what to do.

I've had carers before or 350 minute calls the day and it didn't work out because it's geared up for older people who need getting out of bed etc. They were coming to put me to bed 6 p.m. which was ridiculous. Direct payments has worked out very difficult because if one person has time off I have nobody else to cover those hours. The problems are being I'm still paying for those hours whether they are used or not.

Have any of you had the direct experience of using a care company have blocks of care of up to 45 mins a day rather than 15 minute calls? If you have can you tell me how this worked out and did you have the same carers every week?

I'm in a right fix at the moment and feel so down and depressed about it. I'm fed up of all the 2 years and I'm fed up of people telling me what to how long is just 60 am I have but I don't want to be treated like a 90 year old. I hope someone can help me sort this, thank you.

I forgot to say I have the help because I'm registered blind. I also have two neurological conditions, one which is progressive. I need help with going out, basic personal care cook in light duties housework etc. the Piers will put in place to enable me to live my life the way I wanted however covered put paid to that and I'm paying so much per month I don't even put the heating on now now. Thank you so much for reading - I hope someone can help.

OP posts:
Vivana · 14/11/2021 23:21

Some councils have details off carers who are called. Micro providers who halo with everything you need help with. I used one with my dd once and she was great. The council usually have them on there.websites and they usually charge by the hour and all have experience in care and vetter by the coincil

Connfused · 21/11/2021 13:12

Thank you all for your help and advice, you've been great. Things still aren't any better but that is down to a shortage of PAs and carers locally (probably nationally from what I've heard). I do my best to get on with things but have had to accept I won't be able to go back to my career, that I enjoyed a lot, and I will never be fully independent again. It hurts so much some days. I'm just pleased I was lucky enough to really appreciate how rewarding my work, volunteering and travel were at the time rather than looking back saying "I wish I had..."

Thank you all, sincerely.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread