I'd be grateful for any advice. My dm 83, spent 3 weeks in hospital following a pulmonary embolism and was recently discharged to a nursing home under the 4-6 week NHS agreement. She is able to sit in her chair but needs assistance to get in and out and she can't seem to walk any steps at all. She is eating small amounts and has lost quite a bit of weight. Her memory now seems to be limited to only the moment she is in. In the hospital up until the day before she was discharged, she was needing supplementary oxygen but since going to the home she has not had any. I saw her yesterday and she appeared comfortable and calm which was reassuring but it seems obvious to me that remaining in a nursing home would be the best option now.
We have received a financial assessment form from the LA to complete but I'm confused as to who will do the assessment to determine what level of care is required. Is this something the carehome will do? It is a lovely place but we are finding it difficult to speak to someone to find out what the longer term plan is. Should we ask if a continuing NHS care assessment can be done? She seems reliant on full support for all her care needs now. My parents own their own home but my Dad is living there so I understand they won't need to sell their home. They have savings of about £26k altogether although the majority is held in my Mum's individual bank account. We had applied for attendance allowance but she was then admitted to hospital shortly afterwards so I wonder if we should contact them to cancel the application now? Would the LA say she needs to return home after the 4-6 week period?