Respite and lockdown?

[Aramox]

My mum’s in hospital and I was looking into respite in a care home nearby as managing her care is becoming unsustainable. But if care homes are locked down again would she get stuck there? Does anyone know? She has moderate dementia but very dependent on seeing family, so I’m scared to risk it.

@Aramox
Do you have an idea of how long your mum would need respite care for? Just be aware that for however long she is in there you may not be able to see her.
I'm in a similar situation with my mum. She initially went for 2 weeks respite but things have come to light and she now has to stay there as it has become evident that she is unsafe alone at home, I have seen her 4 times since June and even though I phone the home everyday cannot always get to speak to her for one reason or another. This may of course be different for you.

So in answer to your question, no, I don't think your mum would get stuck there but you may not be able to see / communicate with her as often as you would both like.

Thanks @GladysNarracott. I was thinking a fortnight but really she may not manage at home alone.I’m not sure care homes at present can give much of stimulation either

@Aramox
I forgot to say that when mum first went in she had to isolate in her room, well it wasn't just her all the residents had to do the same. Just something else to check with the home if your mum would need to do this, I imagine that she would, so yes, certainly very little stimulation upon first entering although things do seem to be better now.
I hope you and your mum are OK and you manage to sort something out.

My mum had 3 weeks respite care after being in hospital. I was concerned about the isolation but she wasn't actually locked in her room like some CH's told me she would be. Everyone in this part of the CH were allowed to mingle in their communal lounge but not allowed in any other part of the home. The home is split into 4 separate 'houses' so the one mum was in was used for people who have just arrived.

I could have visited but it sounded like once a fortnight was the average so I didn't see her as I was hoping she would be home soon. Covid will not make any difference to when she comes home, it is just getting the care package set up that takes the time.

Thanks that’s helpful