DF 89 has heart failure, severe kidney disease, has had severe bowel incontinence for years and is now doubly incontinent. He takes meds for his thyroid and his hands shake a lot but he hasn't been diagnosed iwith Parkinsons. He has lots of falls caused by blackouts.
A few months ago, he fell and broke his neck. It's not ever going to heal but he was able to use a frame to get around and was coping with some help from family until the lockdown during which he has deteriorated massively. The bowel incontinence got even worse. It was totally unmanageable. He lost even more weight and had a fall. He hates hospitals and tried to prevent me contacting his GP but I did and was told to call an ambulance.
Things have got worse in the last few days in hospital. They are having to do everything for him, he can drink unaided but they are feeding him and the bowel incontinence isn't easing. He's bed bound and has been treated with antibiotics 3 times for infections in the last week and they've found that he's got a broken shoulder. They say he can't go home with carers as he needs round the clock care and they want to send him to a nursing home. He's so ill, he can't even argue with this. I'm worried they'll say he lacks capacity because he's almost deaf it seems as though he doesn't understand what is being said when actually he just can't hear. He can't communicate properly as his voice is very weak and he struggles to talk now.
Do you think he would qualify for continuing healthcare?
Should we try and arrange a power of attorney or is it quite an easy process to get the court of protection to appoint family members as deputies?
Thanks