I am not sure where I can get information so hoping MN can help. My SIL lives with MIL and is claiming Carers Allowance. However the rest of the family think MIL really needs trained Carers to visit 2 or 3 times a day. SIL is very stressed at having to do all cooking, washing and domestics for MIL but won’t get Carers in for fear of losing the Carers Allowance and MIL disability allowance. MIL does have health conditions and mental health issues and we all try our best to help out each week fitting it around our full times jobs. So my question is would SIL have her benefit money taken away (she could get a p/t job which would then also help with her own sanity I guess)? Please be kind, we really want to do what is best and it is not just about benefits but the overall well-being of MIL and SIL