My Husband works with his mother and sees her after work and on weekends as well. She’s texts him all the time as well. I feel like she plans all of these things for him to do which stops him from doing things he should be doing like getting a new job. He is a procrastinator and keeps putting off looking for a new job. The one he has with her is part time. He qualified with a certificate back in April for the job of his dreams. But he’s still working with her. I don’t believe that she likes me and she had made comments about her son going home with her. Like she wants him to move back in with her. She has a husband and two other children. I find her completely suffocating. I put up with it for two years but all of a sudden I am absolutely sick of seeing his family. I just can’t stand the thought of another family dinner. I feel like they are really fake with me. My husband is 37. I am 39. I hate my husband being treated like a child.