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Are these symptoms of a stroke? What can I do?

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Halfdone · 27/05/2019 15:02

I suspect my mother has had a stroke. Her ability to walk/balance has rapidly declined in the last month. Her speech is slurred slightly and getting worse. She said her left foot feels paralysed, her 'bones are painful' when she tries to walk/climb steps and she can barely stand without holding onto something. This is in contrast to a month ago when she was walking for an hour to the shops. She says she'll need a wheelchair soon. Are these symptoms of a stroke or something similar?

I live 100 miles away and other family live nearer to her but it's difficult getting information out of her & them. She has visited the doctor and seen a physiotherapist. She said the physiotherapist said they couldn't do anything?! She has had an MRI scan and said the results won't come back for another month! She also said she will speak to a neurologist over the phone 'in a few weeks time'. Given her rapid decline these NHS timeframes seem very long especially as she is talking about buying a wheelchair. Should the NHS provide these things? She never asks the doctors questions and I wonder if they are aware how much she has declined.

I am visiting her this week. Obviously I don't know for sure if she has had a stroke but what can I do? I have zero experience of this. Should I ring her doctor or hospital and tell them how much she has declined? What does the NHS provide for stroke patients? Despite her decline should she be trying to keep as active as possible? Anyone who has experience of this please do answer. Thank you.

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JoMumsnet · 27/05/2019 16:20

Just bumping this thread for you, OP. Flowers

CitadelsofScience · 27/05/2019 16:25

Possibly helpful or not? When my bones hurt, going up and down the stairs was painful, my head was so foggy and I felt awful, I was critically low in vitamin D.

Whatdoyouknowwhenyouknownowt · 27/05/2019 16:30

Social services assessment?

Back to GP!

See if she can have an OT assessment too.

RosaWaiting · 27/05/2019 16:32

OP is it worth asking MNHQ to move this to the Elderly Parent thread?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/elderly_parents/3533423-The-second-new-shiny-2019-thread

I'm not sure how much traffic General Health gets.

Halfdone · 27/05/2019 17:02

Thank you all. I will ask to move to elderly parent thread - did not know that existed.

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yolofish · 27/05/2019 22:49

Hi OP, that sounds like a very difficult situation. Best thing I can think of is to phone the GP directly first thing tomorrow and explain what you've said here, and ask for immediate input, ie home visit (ideally when you are there) and then take it from there. but please join us on the thread linked above, everyone is lovely and will have good advice for you

thesandwich · 28/05/2019 17:32

Op, certainly ask for an ot assessment- the nhs can provide all sorts of aids to make life easier.
Also Red Cross hires/ sells equipment too.

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