Hope it's ok to post here.. my lovely aunty is 80, she's the backbone to our family and has been like a granny to me. She lives with my other aunt who has learning difficulties. Over the past year my aunts memory has gotten worse, she forgets who people are and has forgotten great nieces names or even gender. She used to take great pride in her appearance ( pearls, hair permed red lipstick) but has become quite unkempt. My dad is the youngest and sole surviving brother and goes to see both my aunts twice a day and myself and cousins and order aunts always pop in for a cuppa and biscuits. She has always been the one to look after my other aunt but in recents months the roles seem to be reversed. As a family we have of course spoken about her health and are worried but she is a extremely proud lady who won't admit anything is wrong. However this all came to a head last night when she had a fall and my other aunt rang my dad and mum and a ambulance was called. I'm now really worried about the outcome... what will happen to her? What will happen to my other aunt? And what will happen to their house? It's a council house and they have been there since it was built nearly 60 years ago. Sorry for long post