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Elderly parents

Hospital want to discharge - what do I do?

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MereDintofPandiculation · 01/12/2018 19:29

DF has had catastrophic decline over last couple of days, is non-ambulant, and has other symptoms not normal for him. He lives "independently", no carers coming in, no cleaner or help preparing meals. District nurse service OT on routine visit on Thursday decided he wasn't safe in home, couldn't contact GP, and therefore called ambulance, and he was admitted to hospital.

Despite the catastrophic decline, hospital are of the view that there's nothing wrong with him and wish to discharge home.

So can someone remind me of what I need to do, and give me the terms I need to ask for?

I know we need to ask for an assessment of his care needs before he's discharged - what do we need to ask for to get this? Also a CHC assessment (Continuing health care?) but if hospital say there's nothing wrong with him, this is a non-starter, surely? Someone on another thread says he needs a reablement/rehabilitation package, and this I think was what the OT was after.

What if the hospital suggest he goes into a nursing home/care home for rehab - is this likely to become his "forever home"? Is it a hidden trap, and something that should be resisted?

I'm thinking of ringing the OT and telling her hospital want to discharge home - she'll go ape-shit. Is there any reason why I shouldn't ring her?

I'm also thinking of asking his GP for advice (DF has given them permission to speak to me)

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thesandwich · 03/12/2018 11:32

Good luck today.🌺

MereDintofPandiculation · 03/12/2018 19:09

Thanks, all. Summary is that he's moving to a care home for rehabilitation with the aim of getting him back home, so I think that's the result we were aiming for.

Thanks, everyone for your input. It helped enormously in getting me to see the doctor (SHO not consultant unfortunately) and the "discharge facilitator", and to ask the right questions. I now have a reasonable idea of the tests they've done and the results.

Next challenge - to get him able to manage steps before Christmas Day...

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Grace212 · 04/12/2018 15:59

That's good, Dint. did they name a care home or are they looking around now?

MereDintofPandiculation · 04/12/2018 17:39

They're looking around now. Meanwhile he's been moved again (3rd ward since he came off A&E) - "Urology - Surgical". Seems it's just a convenient place to park him, but it gave me a few minutes worry. Good job I phoned to check whether the previous ward still had him. One could easily completely lose a relative.

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