I’m sure this has been answered elsewhere, but I’m hoping you all can provide some advice for this particular situation.
My mum (79) has multiple health issues and is quite physically disabled with RA. She’s able to walk around the house with a stick, but following a recent fall, hospital admission and stay in respite care (private), has a stair lift. She uses a wheelchair or wheely frame outside the house.
She has urinary continence problems, which we are going to raise with the GP. She has capacity, but I am suspecting the beginnings of dementia, and she’s happy for/expecting my brother and me to sort out all finances and medical appointments. She has private carers in x2 per day, who are lovely and just right for her, to do housework, heat meals and help her shower etc.
The savings will last less than a year now, so we need a plan. Her home is worth about £20K. I haven’t applied for attendance allowance, and haven’t been in touch with SS other than to arrange for an OT assessment.
What can we do to keep Mum in her home, with these carers, for as long as possible, and to maximise the funds available? Are equity release schemes as bad as the press make out?
I know we’re fortunate in many ways. My brother and I don’t care much about losing our inheritance - we just want mum to be comfortable.
Thanks.