My mum was in hospital for 4 nights after a heart attack & successful angioplasty about 4 months ago. By the last night she was delusional, accusing the nurses of poisoning her, trying to phone the police and get out the ward.
As she had no issues before she went in I was pretty worried about this but the doctors assured me she'd be much better once she was home. They never mentioned delirium but as she wasn't 'right' at home we looked into it and assumed that's what we were dealing with.
4 months on and while the paranoia stuff stopped within a few weeks she's still not the same woman as she was before. Memory and finding words is an issue, struggling with some simple tasks, assuming every bit of tech she has is 'broken' (normally unplugged or out of battery). She is still living alone, managing shopping, cooking etc though.
This was worrying us enough that on Monday I arranged to speak to her GP behind her back about getting it investigated, but before I have had chance, she had a fall Monday afternoon and is currently waiting for surgery. I told anyone and everyone in the hosp about how badly she was affected last time, so they were aware and could hopefully help her feel better this time but within 24 hours she's rambling on the phone about the nurses stealing her money.
Now terrified she's going to be even worse than she was, at least she was still reasonably independent. Last visit it was like talking to a child with no attention span, it's horrific to see her like that, hoping it was down to being tired/stressed/on morphine, but the pessimist in me is presuming the worst.
Is there any chance this could all still be just delirium? I know they say it can last months but I'm assuming it's wishful thinking that she could come back from this with help?
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Hospital stay - delirium or dementia
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Lellochip · 24/01/2018 12:25
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