Ah, now whataboutbob's comment about the fast track CHC rang a bell. That certainly happened with my mother in hospital, and later in the year I was informed by the care home doctor over the phone that when she'd arrived they'd given her three months to live. We were never told that of course, until then, which was some five-six months later.
Thing is, it would have been true. It was only because the family was taking it in turns to visit every other day to give her drink, and had the time to, that she survived imo. So it was a self-fulfilled prophecy, or would have been had they had their way. That was 2 and a half years ago, my mother is still going. She was taken off CHC after about eight months however, on officially rather spurious grounds ( a dodgily worked out BMI), though I could not deny she had got better in most ways.
I have to say this: both in the hospital, I was the one who had to get her drinking and eating again; none of the staff did anything, even when they saw I was getting a litre down her, and had fluid charts proclaiming that up on the wall. It was like that after she got CHC. And it continued at the care home really, only the environment was better.
Re choosing a care home, they do it for you but you have right of veto, so long as the grounds aren't too spurious. You don't just pick a care home and say, 'want that one'. The one we went to looked great, but it was the third one offered, and it was clear that they wanted the hospital bed back, which was fine by me under the circs.
I agree that of course, anyone put on CHC is likely not long for this world anyway, which can make it something of a poisoned chalice, depending on the circs, and any FoI would need to be examined with that in mind. Social Services got very heavily involved with us, in fact initiated a smear campaign on the quiet, with the care home behind it (and no, I am not kidding) and because of their insistence on being involved in her every care home move since, it has made me wonder what is on my mother's medical notes and whether CHC = LP.
But I can't see them... I don't have PoA in Health and Welfare.