FIL (89) in hospital after a stroke/bleed on the brain- has physical movement but v shaky and confused. Has had infection in his hand since which we think was treated by antibiotics as swelling gone down.
Dh is only child- has gone to where they are 250miles away.
apart from not knowing what is really happening with FIL (hospital are quite vague- we think its v wait and see at the moment) they have asked for a family meeting tomorrow with Social svces.
one of the difficulties is that MIL (78) is an alcoholic - she is sober at the moment but has a cyclical binging pattern excarbated by stress....she is ok at the now as in crisis mode but this will stop..
Cant think how to plan/work out for longer term - assuming he lives but she thinks physio has suggested he'll be discharged soon...whereas he was phoning them up in the middle of the night from hospital as he didnt know where he was....he was so confused....
guess need to work out what does dh need to ask/talk about/say in the family meeting.....he's told the hospital staff about her -she's not happy but FIL will not be safe when shes on a bender.....
sorry for rambling but ideas for family meeting tomorrow would help thanks..
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averythinline · 09/06/2016 21:35
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