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Elderly parents

Dad with dementia

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miffyt · 17/12/2013 12:18

My Dad was diagnosed with dementia 10 days ago. He lives with my stepmum who's memory isn't too good either, she has had a rough time the last few weeks forgetting and losing things. I'd arranged the doctors appointment without him knowing (got him there by saying it was just a medication review) and the GP said it is dementia and that it is either a rare form or more advanced than we first thought, now just waiting for a referral. TBH I think he has been hiding it for a little while. They are 78 and 72 my dad is in reasonable health otherwise though, my s/m has osteoporosis. He has had a good last few days but I don't know how long it will last. He keeps losing things then thinking that they've been stolen and also trying to fix stuff that he shouldn't really touch, eclectics etc.
They live in Kirklees and I was wondering if anyone had any idea of support in this area, groups etc? I know it will end up being far more practical help they will need in the long run but something like activity groups could be good for now. Thanks

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WynkenBlynkenandNod · 17/12/2013 18:17

Sorry to hear about this Miffy. Google the Alzheimer's society and find a branch local to your parents and give them a call. They will know what there is locally .

CMOTDibbler · 17/12/2013 22:18

I second the AS - the support worker that my parents have has been fantastic.
AgeUK seem to have a lot going on in their area too.

Needmoresleep · 18/12/2013 09:30

This is very sad. Please join us on the longer thread. A group of us have been together for a year but this does not mean others are not welcome. The more company on our individual journeys the better. My mother too is in good health but with no memory. Her dementia is progressing slowly so her prognosis is probably about 10 years, which brings with it some different issues. Depending on the actual diagnosis it will be tough on you and even more so on your s/m.

Information is important as is support. The AS helpline and their Forum are both good. The latter shows how hard and isolating living with someone with dementia can be.

miffyt · 20/12/2013 15:30

Thank you all for your messages. I will give the A/S and AgeUK a try and see what they can tell me. I'm fairly new to mumsnet too so without being a bit thick which is the best thread to follow Needmoresleep? Thanks again

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