So mum had her second fall in 8 months and broke her hip whist out on a trip with her care home. She has Alzheimer's.
She had an op to pin the bone and is still in hospital. The OT spoke to me yesterday as she was concerned that mum was -
Depressed
Not willing to socialise
Confused
Wants to stay in bed
Has " delirium"
I told her mum has dementia, she is not delirious, this is normal behaviour for mum. Her memory is very poor, she cannot sustain a conversation and when asked questions she will say "I don't know" even for simple things like chicken or pork for lunch. She is incapable of making even that level of decision.
Mum doesn't know what she is doing there, what has happened, why her leg hurts. Her default position is to lie in bed, because it is safe, everything else confuses her. She is scared. But she is always like that.
The OT says they will not release her whilst she is delirious, plus she needs to be able to move about and be able to get to the loo etc under own steam. Whilst the latter is fair enough, she has a catheter at the moment and is still in a lot of pain so finds it distressing to be moved about, I am confused about the delirium.
Her state of mind is completely as it was before the fall. I appreciate they are going on what they see and that as a snapshot with no other information it appears she could be delirious, but they know about the dementia, she has had it 6 years!
Sorry for the length of this. I just don't know what to say to them to make them understand. I am wondering if this is a good time to get mum assessed and whether SS should be involved. She has been in the home almost 12 months and has fallen and broken her foot as well as this. Or should I just leave them to work it out and eventually get sent back to the home. They initially said she would be in hospital for a week but this time has passed and mum is making very little progress physically due to her mental state of mind. She is a long way from being released.