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**POLL** Have you ever used a private tutor for your DC?

67 replies

thedollyridesout · 06/07/2010 20:47

If so, what subject and at what age/level?

I've just been reading a reseach paper on this but I reckon I'll get as good a sample by asking the question here.

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Ingles2 · 06/07/2010 20:50

yes... twice in my boys school life so far.
maths help for my dyscalculic/dypsraxic son
and 11+ for my other son

HousewifeOfOrangeCounty · 06/07/2010 20:52

Am planning to get one for the 11 plus for dd2 and ds. Didn't with dd1 and tbh I don't think they actually need a tutor, but I found it very stressful doing it myself and worried about my relationship with dd.

heronsfly · 06/07/2010 20:54

Yes,...twice,both youngest dds had 11+ coaching to put them on a level playing field with the rest of the entrants.

RatherBeOnThePiste · 06/07/2010 20:58

Entrance exam preparation for DS and DD. For a year.

thedollyridesout · 06/07/2010 21:47

Apparently maths is the most tutored subject.

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ByTheSea · 06/07/2010 21:49

I had DS1 tutored for maths -- he has dyscalculia. I also had some light 11+ tutoring for DD1 and probably will for DD2.

thedollyridesout · 07/07/2010 09:22

Has anyone used a science tutor?

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sue52 · 07/07/2010 10:41

DS2 has a tutor for French. DSI had a tutor for GCSE science. She got a B. If we hadn't engaged a tutor I think she just might just have managed a C. DS1 and DS2 were both tutored for one term before the 11plus. I think this has been money well spent.

sue52 · 07/07/2010 11:33

EEk sorry I meant DDs. Mega dose Antihistimine making me forget the gender of my own children.

melikalikimaka · 07/07/2010 11:38

Yes DS2 11+ tutoring [successful] and gcse maths for DS1 [because his teacher is so crap!]takes it next june. I think it's worth it.

Fennel · 07/07/2010 11:40

No, and we are unlikely to. Partly because we aren't very into selective education so don't have to worry about any exams til GCSEs, also we find it quite easy to help our dc ourselves and (not that we're arrogant, obviously we tend to think we know more than the average tutor anyway.... and we quite like helping our dc with maths and science and languages etc.

I'm not sure why you think will get a good sample on here, any research paper that used this as a sample would be rejected, it's a self-selected sample, on a site which isn't representative of parents.

BudaisintheZONE · 07/07/2010 11:42

Yes. DS aged 8 for maths. Youngest in year and 2 years of mediocre teachers. Was assessed and found to be 'under-achieving'. Half and hour once a week for half school year.

thedollyridesout · 07/07/2010 11:54

Which parents is it not representative of Fennel?

I am curious as to whether or not this 'sample' will show the same bias for certain subjects.

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deaddei · 07/07/2010 11:57

Yes, 11 plus (runs away shrieking at the memory)
And dd will be having a maths tutor up till GCSE.

Fennel · 07/07/2010 11:59

This is an "opportunity sample" - whoever happens to come along and answer. YOu can't do good statistical analysis on an opportunity sample, normally you should ensure that you get a representative sample. Or at least you'd need a way of categorising the respondents by key variables. So, what do you want to know? how many parents use tutors? what you'll get on mumsnet is a few responses, skewed to those who like to post on education threads, so that'll be the more educated and/or those who get more het up about education. so far more likely to have a tutor. or to post loftily about why they don't need one. and we already know from wider mumsnet surveys that it has a very skewed set of people when it comes to education, far higher percentages of people in the south east, and using private schools, than the average. etc. you need to factor all that into making sense of your findings.

thedollyridesout · 07/07/2010 12:07

Those are exactly the type of people that I wish to hear from Fennel.

What I want to know is that of those people who used tutors, did a significant majority use them at school transition phases and is maths the most tutored for subject followed by english and then science?

Is that OK by you Fennel?

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Fennel · 07/07/2010 12:09

They are interesting questions, but I',m still reacting rather to the gung-ho samping strategy...

thedollyridesout · 07/07/2010 12:13

gung-ho, moi? I thought that was a type of Thai curry .

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exexpat · 07/07/2010 12:18

DS had about half a dozen sessions with a tutor (shared with a friend) to run through VR/NVR papers and (I think) one each of typical maths and English papers ahead of 11+ entry exams for a couple of local independent schools. Seemed to be more than enough, but we're not in a stupidly competitive area.

I wasn't worried about him not making the grade, just wanted to familiarise him with the formats as he hadn't done anything like that before. I could have done it myself with the workbooks but any attempt by me to teach either of my children anything always ends in tears....

GiddyPickle · 07/07/2010 12:23

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thedollyridesout · 07/07/2010 12:32

Thanks very much for your input folks; I appreciate it.

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ajandjjmum · 07/07/2010 12:37

Yes - for both dc - when school weren't providing the standard of teaching they needed for Maths at A level.

Cortina · 07/07/2010 12:38

Roughly 50% of our Y1 class is being tutored, one of the Mums has been circulating 'Daphne's' number to all.

I've seen a massive increase in tutoring. It's not something people admit to but IME it is becoming increasingly commonplace.

It's very interesting to see that agencies like Tinies have set up a tutor division now to tutor children age 5 and up.

You need to either have teaching experience or a 2:1 degree to work for them as a tutor, perhaps I should apply?

ReneRusso · 07/07/2010 12:38

English for my DD in yr 5 aged 9-10 - she has mild specific learning difficulty.

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