Jbjb123 Very helpful thank you. Definitely not interested in boarding schools! Open to either private days schools to 18 or a state grammar school I guess either would be fine as long as it's not too far from Amersham and it's the right fit when the time comes. Undecided about co-ed, diamond or boys only for year 7 upwards. Great that Chesham Grammar is co-ed. Don't really like the idea of doing year 7 & 8 in a prep as it feels a bit strange to be around younger boys at that age.
Do most boys who go to The Beacon live in Amersham and Chesham or do they come from all over Bucks? Birthday parties and spending time with friends at weekends would be interesting if they came from all over the county...
Pastoral care and behaviour have been the issues where we are now & I'm keen to leave class sizes of 30. I don't have a problem having to pay for tuition to get ready for the 11+ test. 85% of those sitting the 11+ test get tutored but I suppose you still need the school to get them to the right level academically by year 6.
Tricky that choices from year 7 whilst living in Amersham are therefore pretty limited to grammars, Berkhamsted or Merchant Taylors to be close to home. At a stretch there's LVS Ascot and Shiplake that have day pupils but I'm not keen on the idea of being that far away from Amersham - not exactly great for a weekend social life for a child or getting to school every day/school events!
How can a head physically go about having much control over changing the focus to maximise the number of boys that stay to 13+? I supposed it could be dealt with via the admissions process and could take many years to shift the focus? How would they know what a family intends to do unless that information is shared with the school?
I hope this change doesn't mean the staff treat the boys differently i.e. favouring the ones they know will stay to 13 over those they're not sure about. Finances of a family being able to afford private schools changes rapidly and a Head can't control that. The Beacon is our preferred option after having visited Davenies, Chesham Prep, Gayhurst (going along to Merchant Taylors Prep open day but I hear it's an academic hothouse so probably a no). Many of the private senior schools take children from year 7 so the competition comes from both grammars and private senior schools. An interesting challenge keeping year 7 & 8 going at a Prep especially in Bucks. Sounds like a family would need to keep their thoughts very much to themselves about life beyond year 6 or do you have to share this info?
Bullying - not great trouble makers weren't dealt with fast enough. Great to hear it's not an academic hothouse but not so great bright kids can coast. Rugby is one sport I'd rather no school did because of the tackling but it's a massive sport and ouch about your son's pain threshold!!!