UPDATE
I went to the options evening last night and am so reassured.
Science - they do have to do double science as an option, however the top set are 'encouraged' to take this option, and they will then do triple science (if you choose double science and are not in the top set you will just do double). I huffed and puffed about double not just being standard, they wxplained (quite reasonably) that it is not a very acadmiec school so if a student is not likely to do a level science they do not want to force all the students down this route as a matter of course.
So, fair enough, dd will do triple science as she is in top set yay.
They DO do Eng Lit - just wasn't detailed on the form as it is not an option as such - just the higher ability students will do eng lit in addition to lang.
Maths - again she is top set so she will be entered for teh higher paper which will be robust enough for A level study.
Met Geog and History teachers who really impressed, really excellent teachers it seems. Was also a blast from the past as the history GCSE course is exactly the same as I took in the nineties! (history of medicine and the Amercian West, I had a look at the textbooks and laughed at the same gory pictures as I did when I was 14!).
The crappy third block - the head of KS4 said in an aside that 'I didn't officially tell you this but...if you really really want dd to do French don't choose an option here and say that you want a language in this option group. This request will be strongly considered as it has been raised by a lot of parents'. So that's all good.
Actually, though, I have had a rethink. DD will be doing quite an academic group of subjects (3 sciences, 2 humanities which will be a lot of work, english lang and lit), she would actually like to do art so I think this might be a nice distraction from the more academic subjects. So she won't do a a language - however we can consider doing this at night school if she has the spare time.
ANYWAY am hugely reassured now and actually pleased with the school - it is far far better than I thought I would be, and dd is actually quite excited at what she will be studying next year.
So thanks everyone again for helping when I had a major strop the other night.
I am so going to get the wine out tonight