I live in Woodley, which i have to say i have found to be a very pleasant area. as per most toens it does have a small area that isn;t so good and a comprehensive that isn;t great. However my eldest goes to Waingels and we've found it to be excellent. ds1 is doing very well and acheving fantastic grades at present. He is 12 and in year 8.
Wokingham council definatley have better secondary schools than reading council areas. even in caversham the schools are not very good and there are plenty of areas where you would not want to live, but if you don;t know the area you could easily end up there.
the grammar schools are notoriously difficult to get into and there is fierce competition for the places, so don;t rely on your child gaining a place and look at other schools in the area to make sure you would be happy with them as well.
I lived in Early prior to moving to woodley about 18 months ago and again some of the schools have outstanding results but some have appalling results. Maiden Erlegh was seen to be the be all and end all of schools but a number of my friends with children attending are distinctly unhappy.
whereabouts would you be trying to commute to from reading? if you need the M$ most areas that access that are dreadful in the rush hours and the rush hours are similar to london ones, starting at 7a.m and going on until after 9a.m. there are plenty of local train stations that go to the main reading station though, including, earley (across the bridge from woodley so easy for woodley too), winnersh, wokingham, tilehurst.
Caversham is horrendous in the morning if you need to cross either of the two bridges, and there is not a local train station so if commmuting by train you would need to travel into Reading town centre.
aplologies for lack of caps and any spelling/grammar mistakes, typing one handed while b/f.