fox if a faith school was not a faith school then it would be exactly like any other school it would be either a good one that people want to be in the catchment for or not.
Personally I think all children should get places in "good schools" but the problem is many parents are not satisfied with just good schools, they want "best" schools and a lot of the problems comes from class and from competitiveness in my opinion
And yes there is Sunday school but their are values in faith schools which are instilled daily and that is why I want DD to go, like respect your teacher, respect your peers, work hard and be rewarded or praised when you have done something right. Going to a faith school to me is important because I view this as a way for DD to be a rounded person not just a performing student. So here you go flame me for my choices if you want but I see a certain benefit in going to a state school that is not the fact that it might get DD to the best secondary or best uni or whatever. I want DD to be happy and a decent person that treats other with respect that is my choice, like it or not.
With regards to your last question that is actually an interesting one. I live in a catchment for excellent non faith schools probably better than DD's faith school. Yet when I applied for DD's school place, there were only faith schools on my application form. My three choices were faith schools some good, some not so good, some near, some further afield.... draw your own conclusions.
With regards to secondary schools, there are alot of excellent private schools where I live, there is also an excellent state secondary school that my house happens to be in the catchment for. I can afford the excellent schools, I am in the catchment for the state school, yet DD will go to the faither secondary school which is much further afield again and which academically is probably nowhere near as good.
So please do not belittle the values I hold dear and imply I am a hypocrit when I am just different to you